Parents Role with Teenagers

Parents Role with Teenagers

I had discussed in the previous blog the changes occurring in adolescence as well as the problems arising in them. Taking this process forward, I would like to say to Teens Parents that how important is your role at this age. How to Handle your Teens.

As we all know, children's upbringing is 'crooked pudding' and especially when they are in Teens. Because at this age they are the most difficult thing to understand and explain.

See, first you have to accept that your children are going through a transition. So there will definitely be problems and problems.

What happens is, when the parents see their child's behavior their attitude they become panic instead of understanding them and because of this the problems arise. It has to be accepted that our children are future of tomorrow but today they are in a new style.

I would say, first of all prepare yourself that you have to take care of them and that too positively with love.

It depends on how you understand your children's feelings and how they treat them, how much affection, how much love they generate, which will help prevent them from becoming directionless.

The more aware you are, the more comfortable you will be, because this is a natural process the less afraid you are, the more you resist, the easier it will be to handle this situation.

Use your intelligence and wisdom and adopt a cooperative attitude with them. Because your support will play an important role in building children's personality and guiding them.

If some things are tied, then it will become easy for Journey Parents as well as children.

    1. Be Their Best Friend :

First thing, tie the knot and you become the best friend of your good. If you have done this, then you have won your trust and confidence. So the child will share everything with you without any hesitation, without hesitation. Listen to everything he says. Follow the formula of Be Positive with children.

What happens is at this age, children often make mistakes and are surrounded by problems due to inadvertence. So, for the fear of getting scolding, they make a habit of lying, clipping, making distances, angry, arguing.

The easiest way to deal with these problems is to become their best friend and guide them like a good friend, keeping an eye on their every activity. This will save the children from going wrong path along with confusions disorientation.

2. Quality Time :

The second important thing to be kept in mind, give your children time. As we know today, most parents are both working. Because of which they are unable to give time to the children.

Here his children keep many kinds of thoughts, troubles and mindsets due to this there is a huge side effect, today the number of children suffering from depression is increasing.

So, take time out of your busyness, spend time with the children. Show interest in there every small activities. Know their problems, their worries help them overcome them. Do not adopt an attitude of restraint or preach, do not even express authority. Otherwise they will become irritable aggressive. You speak less, listen to them more, include them with you.

 

3. Respect Emotions and Feelings :

Next important thing is respect the feelings of Teens as they are very sensitive. They want to know many things from you. They also share the hope that you will importance of their words… You will respect their words. Listen to their everything carefully… take it seriously so that they can talk about it.

 

4. Talk Openly :

Talk to your Teens openly on the next important thing whether it is a problem or a problem or their need.

Even discuss sex related, drugs, give them information, tell its demerits so that they can avoid making mistakes. You have to give this information only, you will have to initiate this initiative. And no one can give this information to your children better than you.

 

5. Emotional Support  :

Teens are very important to emotional support because in this age Teens become highly imaginary in such a situation, do not keep your emotions under control. Often, girls have to have unthinkable fantasies of their beauty. Parents must control them. Educate them, explain to them, their beauty will increase even more when they achieve success in life. They will strengthen their character their understanding because in future they have to compete with themselves alone with the society.

At this age, boys become very adventurous. Adventurous activity makes them happy. Parents can fulfill their wish. Choose similar places to spend holidays where children can enjoy adventurous activities.

Educate them in self defense, especially girls. Participate in favorite sports develop hobbies, encourage dance-music, art and motivate them. Parents became emotionally attached to them.

 

6. Set Boundaries and make them Responsible :

Parents have a big responsibility to set boundaries and make them responsible. If children are growing up, then give them independence as well as give information about limits so that they give importance to discipline along with independence. At the same time, make them realize the responsibilities so that they understand and fulfill their responsibilities.

You entrust them with such a responsibility that they can fully enjoy it. Guidance and support of parents is important or else how will they understand. Give freedom but keep an eye on their every activity. Before doing of their own, give them information about right and wrong.

To make Teens responsible the best way to shape their future is to be interested in their actions, increase their spirits, do not compare to anyone, encourage, praise their actions. So that they feel that you value their actions and their feelings.

Give a lot of love to your Teens, spend time together, increase respect for each other.

I hope you will follow these suggestions and give your opinion.