Don't Underestimate Yourself

 

Don't Underestimate Yourself

It does not matter whether you are successful or not, instead what matters is whether you were as successful as you were capable of. Don't keep the attitude those who change the spirits. Rather keep the courage that changes the circumstances. Often there are many of us who underestimate themselves but why ?

We all listen to others. Often, we listen to the outside world who always tells us that hey, you can't do it, you can't. To be successful is a distant thing, it is beyond your control etc. etc. While we have all the abilities to succeed and we can achieve it too. But we accept the words of others and many times they keep thinking about what others have said and accept it as the truth. That maybe I am lacking inside. Understand themselves less than others, start to underestimate. This is our biggest mistake.

It is also the case that if someone praises us, we say - Hey, where are you talking? That is, you do not take that compliment seriously.

And at the same time, if someone jokes that there are many flaws within you, then immediately accept his thought without thinking and many times you are immersed in this thinking day and night, now nothing is going to happen to them. Now of no use. This thought sinks them, this is their biggest weakness of a person. You will become what you think. If you think of yourself as weak then you will become weak, if you think powerful you will become strong.

Swami Vivekananda has said - "To consider oneself weak is the greatest sin". As long as you are afraid, someone else will take decisions for your life.

Do not spend time thinking what people think of us, how little we think, rather enjoy them and think about their absurd thoughts, if we think about ourselves then what will the poor people think. So be positive.

Friends, why fear what will happen tomorrow, how will our life be tomorrow? Why think all the time that it will be bad, just keep moving towards your destination with conviction or not get anything but new experiences will definitely meet.

We all know that life is ours and it is up to us that we make it sweet, simple and more important than that to enjoy our life, be happy and it matters a lot. This is the spirit which strengthen us. The sense of underestimate does not come, that is for sure.

The almighty has given you all the powers, but you cover your eyes with your own hands and are upset that you can't see anything. You start underestimate yourself.

Within you is the power of faith, that is your sun. This is the light of your life, it will show you the way, will make you strong.

Every human has two options, either accept your fate or draw the line of fate on your palm like Napoleon himself. So don't you want to change yourself? You have to change yourself, you have to prove yourself. So know those things.

 

1. Self Improvement: Self Improvement is very important. If you have to improve yourself, prove it, want to be mentally strong, want to move ahead then self-improvement is necessary. The first is to remove your inferiority complex, negative thinking. Also, bad habits must be abandoned. Then you will see that you are automatically becoming stronger from inside. Confidence will awaken in you. Which will increase your quality of life as well as help in achieving the goal.

 

2. Become Mentally Strong: Mentally strong people are able to cope with every situation. Such people have complete control over their emotions. If someone calls them bad, then they know how to ignore it very well. Do not like to give any kind of response in negative situations, do not like to spend energy in wasteful work, nor try to make others happy. Such people are not afraid of being alone because they keep on thinking about work which not only keeps them busy, but also gives them happiness and satisfaction.

 

3. Read Good Books: Good books are always like best friends, which not only make them mentally strong, but also enhance life. Books provide many important information that we do not even know. As well as morale, it not only increases enthusiasm, but also motivates people to grow. Many time’s we have to be filled with stress and complications with small matters, books help to get out of those problems and stress with comfort. That too with satisfaction.

 

4. Spend Time with Good People: It puts a lot of effect on you, what kind of people you spend time with. Where you become good with the association of good people, then you become victims of evils with the company of the bad. So, it is very important to be with them from whom you can learn something good.

 

5. Obstacles to Your Power: "Self-confidence" is essential to our lives. Under no circumstances, it is your confidence that shows how your attitude is. If you are a confident then you can handle any situation in the best way with your intelligence and patience. At the same time lack of confidence brings underestimate feeling. Therefore, increase trust, recognize your power. Of course, you will succeed and become a better person. Always feel that you are Confident.

 

6. Face Your Fear: When you do not overcome your fear of heart, you will neither be able to move forward nor improve yourself. Fear is a big obstacle on the way forward. Which makes you feel weak again and again. Fix your deficiency. Do not give up now, boost your spirits.

 

7. Do not Compare: Do not compare yourself to anyone even by mistake. Comparison always evokes a sense of sorrow and insecurity. We begin to think of ourselves as inferior. Which causes big loss. We do not make our lives better, nor are we addresses by creating value. Do not judge yourself by the eyes of others. It is important to recognize your ability, trust him, spend time with yourself. Improve your skills only then your identity will be made. Then you will realize the importance of yourself.

 

8. Work Hard: Do not be afraid of working, nor be afraid of failure and mistakes. Stay away from laziness. Stop spreading your hands in front of others. Desperate, depressed, abandon the habit of leaving work for tomorrow. Learn to take responsibility, generate the passion to move forward. Use the time well. A hardworking and successful person is hiding in you and take it out.

A man is alone in conflict, so do not waste time in thinking, but instead make efforts in trying to move forward. And even if you have to make absurd efforts, then do it because sometimes such efforts also make impossible, possible. It is also true that on whom the world had laughed has created a history.

Look at these lines of poet Yemen Kaushik -

There is just a lack of faith, you learn to believe in yourself.

Sparked in the hearts, whether you win every battle.

If you want to build confidence, then learn to fight every challenge.

Love your destiny so much that, the challenges start getting afraid of you.

You are full of talent, I don't know when you will recognize it.

Wake up, stand up, success is at your door.

No one can stop you from moving forward, there is no such way. Just understand this much, there is nothing like you.