8 Tips for Better Communication
"Communication"
is a style that fosters familiarity even in a stranger’s environment. Makes it
easier and happier. Also, it is such a skill that we see the path of happiness
as well as success. But today this skill is missing something.
Two questions
are in my mind. Should our conversation be interesting? Or how serious we
should talk?
I fully agree
with this that our conversation is not only interesting, but it should also be
done with full seriousness. Because conversation is a solution that becomes the
hallmark of your personality. It is a mirror that enhances your image. It is a
bridge on which we can touch the hearts of others.
If I talk about
today, every person wants to succeed today and for this, mastering the art of
conversation is the first condition and it is also a demand of the times.
Four things are
very important in this - first for influential personality, second for success,
third for loving people - reputation, fourth for happy life. Be it the family
environment or the political student class or laborer or business class.
You must have
thought - a salesman gets to book orders worth thousands of millions from his
negotiation skills, while many take years to succeed. In an interview, a
candidate is immediately selected, and many have to face the interview ten
times. This is all because of good communication.
If I say, there
will be no exaggeration that communication is not only an art, but also a
science. By practicing the art of communication continuously, we can gain
proficiency in it. Its performance can leave a deep impression on others, and
we can constantly develop its use as a science.
A five-year-old
child is playing with his car, and you tell him, son, your car is very
beautiful, where is it going? The child will feel happy. On the contrary, is
you ask son did you go to school today? Did you so your homework? So, what will
be the reaction of that child. You can very well guess. Actually, speaking is
such a skill that resolves bad and difficult tasks.
If you pay
attention to these eight things during the communication, then you can
definitely become a source of happiness and inspiration for others.
1. Smile and
Look into the eyes during Communication:
Whether talking
on the phone or face-to-face, always talk with a smile and give importance to
the person in front of you. For an effective communication, look into his eyes
and talk with the person with full confidence.
2. Be a Good
Listener:
Do not ignore
the person with whom you are communication, because the conversation is two-way
traffic. Nor should bring monopoly on negotiations. Give the person a chance to
speak as well. If you want to make the conversation effective, listen the
person carefully, give importance to their words. Nature has given man one
tongue and two ears so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.
3. Not to be
Fussed:
Do not boast
about things, do not ask personal questions nor speak negative things. Big talk
and negative talk spoil both the atmosphere and mood. And at the same time
people will not take you seriously and your important things will also be
ignored and ignored.
4. Pay
Attention to your Perspective:
The interaction
should be positive so that there is ease and familiarity in the environment and
leave positive effects. Therefore, take special care of your perspective during
conversation. Do not try to apply your thinking to others and do not consider
the person in front of you as small, inferior, or weak.
5. Be Alert to
Voice:
Be alert to the
voice because hoarse voice hurts and speaking too fast or too slow can cause
anger. Talk leisurely so that everyone can enjoy and understand your
conversation.
6. Decide what
to Say:
Decide what to
say because repeating the same thing repeatedly makes the conversation fun.
Also, funny. Also, the language should be simple clear, the pronunciation of
words is correct, otherwise it also makes sense of meaning.
7. Body
Language:
Body language
is very important during conversation. The expressions of eyes, lips, hands,
and face make the conversation come alive. Also, do not do any such activity
which will have a wrong effect.
8. Do not
Argue:
It is very
important to discuss during the conversation but do not argue. Because
discussion gives a meaningful solution and new information. And the argument
spoils the atmosphere.
At the end I
would like to say that words are very effective. Some words settle in the mind
like the sweetness of the flute. Whereas some words use like gunpowder.
So, why don't
we all win others heart with our polite behavior and communication. With a
little effort, thoughts we can improved in life.
Hopefully, you
will keep a note of these things and take special care of them as well.
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